Then, as life comes at you fast, another situation has arisen between a certain unintelligent/selfish individual and his ex-girlfriend and my boyfriend. To make a long story short, the unintelligent/selfish individual remarkably pulled an unintelligent/selfish scheme towards his ex-girlfriend which then immediately had an impact on my boyfriend, shocking isn't it?
In essence, I have never been a fan of this unintelligent/selfish individual for the years that I have known him. But he and my boyfriend been best friends which then thus forth I attempted to be nice to this unintelligent/selfish individual whenever he was around.
It has angered me in the past when my boyfriend, Tyler, has allowed this selfish individual to walk all over him, degrade him, and essentially stab him in the back. And I always seemed to ask,"Why do you put up with his shit?" In response the to my answer it was either because he has a rough family life and Tyler has just learned to deal with it. Well I found that to be complete bullshit. No person in the entire world has the right to degrade someone and use an individual to make themselves feel better.
But then again, I am putting negative energy towards the situation.
I recently found another way to downsize my negativity. I hate being negative and taking a negative approach to things. Taking a negative approach will never lead to success in this lifetime.
I was reading this webpage by Anthony Fernando.
He brings a different perspective of negativity....
This glass filled with the black liquid represents an individual's negativity.
But then when you ask a question such as I did, "Why do you out up with that shit?" It adds to the negativity.
But you can add more positive energy by randomly suggesting another subject that can lift the soul and clear the mind
This is the way Anthony Fernando handles negativity. It's just of a way to flip a situation around to make it positive.
Back to the situation addressed between the unintelligent/selfish individual(which I am adding negativity and degradation to the title of this person, but I will try to overcome the negative title that I have created for this particular individual), his ex-girlfriend, and Tyler. This whole thing could turn out to be a positive situation for Tyler and Kathy because they had the opportunity to learn what not to look for in a friend/boyfriend. They have gained knowledge of the true motives of this unintelligent/selfish individual.
Anthony Fernando gives suggestions in how to overcome negative energy to place into positive energy.
Such as:
- Sharing fun experiences with others because it's tough being negative while having fun
- Be positive example even when you are at it alone and everyone else around is not so positive
(All Photographs can be found at http://www.anthonyfernando.com/2007/12/01/how-to-deal-with-negative-people/)
2 comments:
yup, and i'm pretty sure this was the last straw. idk what i'm going to do but yup.
First let me say that you are a beautifully intelligent individual. And I agree; that is a very good approach to reduce the negativity. I have tried to implement your technique into my situation but unfortunately, the anger that I have towards this certain unintelligent/selfish individual is so great that it is nearly impossible for me to transform it into something more positive. I wish I could be more optimistic like you are. But then again, that's probably the negativity talking again, huh? Dammit! Lol.
By the way, this was a really interesting blog. Kudos! ;)
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