9.17.2008

It's amazing...


It's amazing in the way that LOVE effects people.


One of my favorite movie lines about why people want to find true love:

"It's the closest thing we have to magic."-Aquamarine.

And has cheesy as that line is, I totally agree with it. It's a feeling that captivates the soul, the mind, and the body.

It makes people so happy and makes people realize what's important in life. LOVE has taken a positive toll over me and everyday I thank God for showing me that and I thank God ever day for having my path cross with Tyler.

I love Tyler Jensen more than anybody or anything on this Earth. He is my best friend, my boyfriend, my twin, my one true love. I love him, always and forever.

I wish people out in the world could find LOVE.

I don't mean the teenage infatuation.

For instance, a friend of mine was talking to me in the locker room this morning about her boyfriend. She says that she didn't like her boyfriend anymore because he "makes" her get high in the morning before school, he"makes" her steal from her parents, he "makes" her skip class, he "makes" her... and the list goes on. So i asked the simple question," Well if you do not like all the things you are doing with him, then why not just break-up with him?" Her response was that she loves him so much and she can't live without him.

To me... that did not sound a bit like love. I wish girls would get that through their heads, when a boyfriend(or heck even a girlfriend) forces you or pressures you to do things or abuses you or walks all over but then turns around and tells you that he or she loves you...that's not love. I've been down that path, and I beg you to please not buy into shit. There WILL be someone out there in the world that you will meet that will treat you like you should be treated. So don't fall for the "oh i don't think I could get another boyfriend/girlfriend" trap I beg you!

I'm not saying LOVE is a walk in the park either. It is extremely emotional/stressful at times. It can and most likely will tear you a part and all you'll want to do is curl up and hide. But that's another thing that makes LOVE such an adventure. Ya, you'll trip and fall, but you have to get back up and work at it.

Tyler and I have disagreements from time to time, but we work it out and listen to each other. It just builds our LOVE up more and more. And that's what it takes.

I just wish people could find that, and get through their heads that LOVE is out there. LOVE is an adventure. And of course I have to totally use this, "LOVE is a battlefield"(Pat Benetar).

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